Happened to find this little “lost Honeymooners episode” floating around in cyberspace the other night, and would’ve included it if I’d found it when I was compiling the book last year.
I’ve lived near the beach all my life, so I’ve had some experience with (I’ll say it the way they like us to say it) naturists.
When many beach states tried to ban thong bikinis in the ’80s, I laughed along with everyone else, both at the effort and at the sight of the ol’ butt floss.
I laughed even harder when a woman near me was arrested for nude sunbathing at a state park, and then returned a day later wearing only a thin copy of the Constitution. Guess where the Fifth Amendment was?
So, what I am about to say shocks even me a bit. Here I write up at you, naked, wearing nothing but a towel.
Actually, the towel is just for now. Later on tonight, I doubt I’ll be
wearing anything at all.
It really hit me about a year ago, when that Alanis Morrisette song ‘You Learn,” came out. I know, I know, getting any inspiration from Alanis is suspect and makes me feel kind of weird, but bear with me.
There’s a line in there that goes, “I highly recommend walking
around nude in your living room to anyone.”
I thought, “Hmm, I might know a little about that.”
There’s a certain something so intensely relaxing about sitting, walking, doing whatever in your living room in the buff. It’s not a sexual thing, as I know full well the difference between the naked and the nude. And the even bigger difference between the naked and the nekkid.
Think about this for a sec: Just imagine how good it feels to take your shoes off after wearing them all day. Then, think how good it feels when your socks finally come off. Same kinda thing.
A few years ago, I got into the habit of taking a shower
as soon as I got home from work because the pressure and the stress of
everyday business life was driving me out of my skin. Showers have always
had interesting effects on me. I still get my best ideas and do my best
writing (in my head) in the shower.
Afterward, I usually was just too exhausted to go all the way to my
bedroom to put on sweats. I would get out of the shower, not bother
to put any clothes on and disappear into my bachelor-approved, ugly brown recliner and “Mystery Science Theater 3000” at 3 a.m.
I’m not so sure that I’m a nudist. It seems to me that most nudists are closet exhibitionists, and naturism is pretty much a front for that. Same way that I might be a spiritual kind of guy, but you won’t catch me dead in a church. Or, maybe you will, actually. Don’t suppose I’ll have much to say about it at that point.
All I know is that when I was just about to lose my mind, needing to
arrive at the silence of myself and stay there for a really long time every night after work, I was far more relaxed in my birthday suit than in my work suit.
I don’t get the mail that way, I don’t walk the dog that way, I don’t
sunbathe that way, I don’t do the grocery shopping that way, I don’t drive that way, I don’t get the paper that way. I just, on occasion, write for the paper that way.
I’m pretty sure I’m not alone. So, if you’ve ever wanted to experiment
with at-home nudism, here are a few tips.
-Don’t read in the nude. Paper cuts.
-Invest in a robe. People have a way of disturbing your meditation.
-Don’t buy white blinds. Get simulated wood grain ones. The TV at night is
just enough light to cast interesting silhouettes.
-No pizza. Imagine the horror the McDonald’s coffee lady went through.
Multiply it.
Remember, you’re the one that pays your life’s rent. Don’t
let anybody tell you you’re perverted. Unless, of course, you are.